Hinge Event Gathering

Today I went to the Hinge event. Hinge is a mobile app which can be used to set up date with facebook friends and their friends. This event was really wonderful, lot of chicks and the ratio was really good. Everyone was in a relaxed mood and it was easy to talk to girls there. I went with a wing and basically he had no game. This is the first time I went with him to game so I had no idea what to expect from him.

He basically screwed 3 sets of mine. I believe he is too cocky for this environment. I realized that during an event  you cannot  be cocky, you got to run more comfort oriented game with lot of story telling with grounding stories and qualification, which I was concentrating on and it was working really well.

So I first opened a two set, gorgeous girls, and my wing came in and started cold reading and I could tell the girls realized it on the go. They got away from us after 5 minutes when my wing finished his cold reading.

Then I opened an indian girl, got her number and facebook. But she is leaving to paris next week will be back only after 2 weeks. Let us see I can get her out. I run the commonality game because she is into photography and a creative person which Im projecting as I am.

Then I opened a 2 set indirect and they were not biting, so I moved on. Walked around a bit and opened a gorgeous girl Stef directly. She was really into me, I started qualifying with medium hoops and she was so happy to comply. My wing was working on the other girl and when I was about to get her number her friend said she wants to go to bathroom, which is girl code for, the guy I"m talking to is boring.

Then my wing opened a 4 set, I was handling 2 girls and one girl was really into me. I tried to move her after a big loop and she moved with me. Then she realized her friend is alone with my wing and when I was about to start talking to her at the new location her friend came tous and told us, she is gonna go home. Thats another code for the guy Im talking to is boring. But I got the girls number and facebook. She wants to do a photoshoot with us. Well lets see how this all will turn out.

In other news, the girl from the last photo shoot Nadja flaked on me citing a reason she is saving up for paying for her rent. I dont know its true or not, but she lives a little far from DC and it will take a bus and a train to get to DC for her. So may be she dont have anyone to give her a drop after the event or she is not into me. I will know if I call her again, lets see that.

And another girl I talked to from the whole foods while day gaming also flaked on me, but her text message was really detailed and she was sick the day before yesterday and she mentioned she is more sick yesterday. Dont know its true or not, but I'm gonna call her for the photoshoot this saturday,lets see she will come for that.

Positives : I opened almost all sets directly which is a good thing,I can weed out the girls who are not into me immediately.
I could make girl talk to me a lot about them. I dig kinda deep into who they are personally. For example the indian girl told me about her dating life, the spanish girl told me about her family, her life in high school, her goals and ambitions.
I did made some statement of intents.

Negatives
I should avoid taking wings to these events, alone will work better, no one to destroy some solid sets.
I should avoid the mentality of dependence on wings to open sets. 

Day game at Whole foods

Monday I went out to day game at whole foods with superman  and couple of his friends in the evening.
I was aiming to open 6 girls today but opened only 4 basically because there was too much gap in between each set. We chat a lot in between and wasted our time. We started at 6:30 and day gamed till 9:30 just to open 4 girls which is atrocious.

Anyways, I opened the first girl Kirsten and it went well. She is an intern in DC and I opened direct. She was really receptive, I went into the story immediately about my trip to India and complained about easing into the DC grove. talked about wine, qualified her, hugged her but forgot to do romantic connection with her. Seeded a date and got her number. I called her later and we talked for 20 minutes and she is supposed to meet me today, well lets see if she meets me or not. I said we are going to a hinge party for our magazine and she said yes.

Next I opened an indian girl and she didnt recieved well at all when I said she is adorable. I made a mistake of saying I'm an engineer without she asking. I think I lost my mojo when she didnt took my direct opener well.

Next I opened a girl indirectly and she was not cute, I thought she is from far and she has horrible beta body language. See now I know if a girl is beta just by talking to her. But she was receiving me well, so I continued my interaction and did my usual grounding story about India trip and shopping in whole foods etc. Qualified her with a medium loop which is what you do for fun and she does not have anything going on in her life other than hanging out with friends..no she wants to qualify and I know she is trying but basically she is living a boring life. Anyways I got her number but later I deleted it because I know I wont go out with a date with her even if she agrees.

Next I opened a girl with a head scarf turns out she is a muslim. I should stop opening muslim girls, they are so prude and I'm sure she is a virgin. But the interaction was the longest and we talked about many things about her. I talked about religion, I know I know its a taboo, but I mentioned it in a way to show my knowledge in thier religion turns out I know better than them. Some of the info I gave them, they are hearing for the first time. Anyways, I got her number and facebook and we talk later on facebook. But Im not gonna waste my time on her, its a huge mountain to climb. Ill do better things like hitting on more girls.

Superman has the audio of the first girl in his recorder, I need to get it from him and upload here.

Positives 

- I opens directly
- no problem in transitioning
- No issues in qualifying 
- I think I generally come across as a decent guy dressing wise.

Negatives

- Need to open more cute girls instead of muslims and below par ones
- Should make more statements of intent
- Use the words attractive and sexy in SOI
- Try for romantic connection
- Try for insta dates
- Get the number after seeding the date as an after thought. 
- Need to do some cold reads in girls