I met her online and no problem getting the number, never talked to her on the phone, arranged the date via text (So it can happen) and met her at current. She was wearing her high heels as I told her and very happy to see me. Current was closed so I walked her to Vapiano and ordered a Sangria and Vodka Soda (next time I will go for vodka red bull).
Did all my stores like ducks, meeting an author and he gave me his book, anchoring about what I do, playing around with hit list movie plot where Cuba Gooding junior is a professional killer, light kino, ask about some of her logistics, her family.
It was definitely on, but I ignored her comment about being emotionally extreme. I should have negged her something like, in that case I dont know we will get along well. I noticed her body language it was positive, she asked me many questions (IOI), playing with her hair.
After we hit the hour mark, I bounced her to staples for my personal shopping. I hold her shoulder and asked her to put her arm around my waist. Then I would have told her not to gram my ass (next time)
When we were about to leave staples, I saw her checking on her phone and smiling, may be another guy, who knows. Then on the signal, I negged her with pull my finger routine, and she didnt like it at all.
So after 5 mintues she gave me a mock I'm leaving threat, but I called her back and I let it drop. Big mistake, I should have told her that, I wont react well to threaten, next time when she is leaving me hanging, you better prepare to go, I wont call you back.
Then I moved her to fragut park and within 10 minutes I went in for the kiss, she wont accept, I say its alright, I will try after 5 minutes. Then again I went in for kiss, she wont budge and I believe I got upset. Then she started reading my palm and she is very cooperative other than kissing.
Then again after 5 minutes I went in for the kiss, she wont budge again. And she asks me why did I decide to contact her. I say, 2 reasons
1. You look like a loser in your profile.
2. You are the most beautiful women I ve seen in okc and match.com combined.
She immediately get up and leave, I say metro station is right there and thats that.
To Improve
I need to watch for more of her body language
I need to concentrate more on what she is saying rather than what I'm gonna say
Qualify more
If a girl asks me, why I choose her, I have to say
Why are you bothered about my assertion, dont you know you are a great person and I assume the same and I have no doubt, thats the reason you decide to came out with me, because you think I'm not an average guy you meet everyday. If you need assertions and validation from me, then we wont be a good match. But since you ask, I will tell you for the first and last time. You are sexy, but there are many sexy girls out here and I find you interesting and 3 you are nice but I"m not sure you use your niceness to get something from others or you are genuinely a nice person.
I deleted her number from my cell, so thats that.
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