Is this an aberration or a norm?
I met her at a Indian meetup and hit it off well. She could take my cocky teasing and she had an excellent shape and as tall as me (5'8). I isolated her from the whole group of men, and build some comfort and planned a date in the pretense of going for togo dance. And she accepted.
I was scheduled to meet her on Wednesday and I send her the address on Tuesday but never heard back until wednesday around 5 so I called and left her a message to make sure the date is on.
No response!
I thought she flaked, so I texted some friends to go for day gaming and left for the gym. when I came back from the gym I had 2 voice mails and 3 missed calls, all from her. So date was on.
We met at ESL, but wednesday is not togo day, it was tuesday. But the vibe was good and we are cruising, I was touching her, eye fucking her and she is responding well. after about an hour I thought I'm ready to kiss her, So I say, "I'm gonna hit the restroom now and when I come back, I'm gonna kiss you". She said alright.
So I come back from restroom, and take her for another drink. She was totally alive then, so I kissed her after 10 more minutes. She reciprocated with zeal, and I kissed her again interrupting her when she was talking.
Then I moved her to Farragut west park and we are walking on 18th street holding each other telling stories and I could really feel its going well. When we reached 17th street, I pulled her to the shadow of a pillar near by and kiss her again.
Now we are at the park sitting on the single seat holding hands, kissing(or is it eating her face) intermittently and having a great conversation. So when its about 9, I say lets go get some ice cream near the yogurt center and we do that. She feeds me her flavor and I feed her mine. I can tell she is enjoying it and after we finish ice cream we go to Farragut metro. On the escalator down, I ask her, have you ever kissed anyone on the escalator, she says no and I do that exactly.
Then at the metro, we talk a bit and my train comes first and I leave her kissing her good bye.
In the meantime, I arrange for the second date on saturday going to occoquan a place near spring field VA, which is a water front with some old town restaurants and park. She oblige.
So I call her next day which is thursday and I couldnt get her on the phone. So I leave a voice message saying, just calling to make sure about saturday date.
Next day I login to my facebook, she has deleted me from her facebook and the funny thing is she added me to fb. I've a meetup group, she was a member of it, and I see a mail mentioning she has left my meet up group.
What the fuck just happened?
These are my thoughts
1. I kissed her way too much and didnt show restrain.
2. My body language is completely off and I may be projecting beta without me even realizing.
3. She has AIDS or herpes and she find out on Thursday
I didnt run any game, I was completely natural and talking about things I know. I was qualifying her and she was compliant. Only game question I asked was, "when did you realize that you are attracted to me", to make her verbalize her attraction.
I really cant put a finger about how to improve on myself from this situation. May be you will have a different perspective.
Do you find any way I can turn this around. I'm thinking of calling her after a week or is it too soon?
Do you think I should call her at all?
So when I call if I get a voice mail, should I act aloof or should I say something serious like "I thought I had a great time and I dont know what happened from her perspective" or something similar.
If I dont get her to call me once I left her message, should I try again. My fellow wing man say, 5 is the magic number, call every girl 5 times before giving up
Being said that, I have some 10 girls in the queue so please dont think I'm being needy here, instead I'm trying to solve my puzzle of successful on a date.
Share me your thoughts.
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