Monday, August 15, 2011

Number of dates this year

Online dating
1. Teacher - just first date
2. Wine maker - just first date and I didnt want 2nd
3. Law student - Just first date
4. Job seeker (which I fucked)
5. French girl - I didnt call for 2nd date
6. Indian Girl - bust
7. A date with a short girl - I wont fuck her
8. A date with a texan girl _ i didnt call her
9. Date with wisconsin girl - Still talking need to arrange 2nd date, arranged 2nd date(8 hours).
10. Date with a musician - I fucked it by biting her lips
11. Date with a lawyer - she was not interested, so i didnt call her
12. Date with a Wyoming girl - socially inept girl
13. Date with Rosie - sanfran girl - She refuse to bounce, so I'm not gonna call her
14. Date with Carissa Michigan girl - I bounced her to a hotel room on first date
15. Date with Liz, but not my type, she is little fat than I imagined.

2012
1. Date with  a short hair girl - I was overly cocky
2. Date with Caroline - John hopkins girl, I was again cocky, but I deliberately choose to be cocky since she was young (22). I didnt gauge her wave length. I need to take it down a bit if the girl is not that high energy.
3. Date with Dana, she is fat compared to the pics online.

Night game and day game
1. Indian girl - went out for 3 dates and I loose interest
2. Army return - I want to give her my seed

2013 -

Date with megan - I didnt escalate but did good qualification
Date with and Indian girl humara - Went for 2nd date -LMR.I need to push and pull sexually
Date with Roshni - Didnt call her after 2nd date, kinda lost interest

Total -

Date with a Army return

Is this an aberration or a norm?

I met her at a Indian meetup and hit it off well. She could take my cocky teasing and she had an excellent shape and as tall as me (5'8). I isolated her from the whole group of men, and build some comfort and planned a date in the pretense of going for togo dance. And she accepted.

I was scheduled to meet her on Wednesday and I send her the address on Tuesday but never heard back until wednesday around 5 so I called and left her a message to make sure the date is on.
No response!
I thought she flaked, so I texted some friends to go for day gaming and left for the gym. when I came back from the gym I had 2 voice mails and 3 missed calls, all from her. So date was on.

We met at ESL, but wednesday is not togo day, it was tuesday. But the vibe was good and we are cruising, I was touching her, eye fucking her and she is responding well. after about an hour I thought I'm ready to kiss her, So I say, "I'm gonna hit the restroom now and when I come back, I'm gonna kiss you". She said alright.

So I come back from restroom, and take her for another drink. She was totally alive then, so I kissed her after 10 more minutes. She reciprocated with zeal, and I kissed her again interrupting her when she was talking.

Then I moved her to Farragut west park and we are walking on 18th street holding each other telling stories and I could really feel its going well. When we reached 17th street, I pulled her to the shadow of a pillar near by and kiss her again.

Now we are at the park sitting on the single seat holding hands, kissing(or is it eating her face) intermittently and having a great conversation. So when its about 9, I say lets go get some ice cream near the yogurt center and we do that. She feeds me her flavor and I feed her mine. I can tell she is enjoying it and after we finish ice cream we go to Farragut metro. On the escalator down, I ask her, have you ever kissed anyone on the escalator, she says no and I do that exactly.

Then at the metro, we talk a bit and my train comes first and I leave her kissing her good bye.

In the meantime, I arrange for the second date on saturday going to occoquan a place near spring field VA, which is a water front with some old town restaurants and park. She oblige.

So I call her next day which is thursday and I couldnt get her on the phone. So I leave a voice message saying, just calling to make sure about saturday date.

Next day I login to my facebook, she has deleted me from her facebook and the funny thing is she added me to fb. I've a meetup group, she was a member of it, and I see a mail mentioning she has left my meet up group.

What the fuck just happened?

These are my thoughts
1. I kissed her way too much and didnt show restrain.
2. My body language is completely off and I may be projecting beta without me even realizing.
3. She has AIDS or herpes and she find out on Thursday

I didnt run any game, I was completely natural and talking about things I know. I was qualifying her and she was compliant. Only game question I asked was, "when did you realize that you are attracted to me", to make her verbalize her attraction.

I really cant put a finger about how to improve on myself from this situation. May be you will have a different perspective.

Do you find any way I can turn this around. I'm thinking of calling her after a week or is it too soon?
Do you think I should call her at all?
So when I call if I get a voice mail, should I act aloof or should I say something serious like "I thought I had a great time and I dont know what happened from her perspective" or something similar.
If I dont get her to call me once I left her message, should I try again. My fellow wing man say, 5 is the magic number, call every girl 5 times before giving up

Being said that, I have some 10 girls in the queue so please dont think I'm being needy here, instead I'm trying to solve my puzzle of successful on a date.

Share me your thoughts.

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Day Game August 4/11

Today I went out to do some day game around dupont and fragut square.

Opened 4 girls and none of them hooked. Pretty bad, but hey I didnt had any effect whatsoever on me after these encounters.

Good
Opened girls and went out.

Improvements to be made
Approach more girls.
Talk a little bit more fast, I guess I was really slow today.
Block the girls completely ( I used to do this, but I somehow was not in front of the girls today)
Dont forget the cam

PS: One girl overheard I was saying to another girl and I hit on the girl the same girl. She said, I heard what you said to the other girl, but I did hold my frame. But still I couldnt hook the girl. well...

Monday, August 1, 2011

Failed Day Game Pick up

This saturday, I went out with a friend of mine to Pentagon City mall and talked to some females. I opened 3 girls, got one number. But I forgot to turn on the cam for the other two in the hurry, but this chinese girl I did turn on my web cam. So here it is, take a look at it and if you have any feedback, I will be very glad to hear it.


failedChinese by springhorse