Hinge Event Gathering

Today I went to the Hinge event. Hinge is a mobile app which can be used to set up date with facebook friends and their friends. This event was really wonderful, lot of chicks and the ratio was really good. Everyone was in a relaxed mood and it was easy to talk to girls there. I went with a wing and basically he had no game. This is the first time I went with him to game so I had no idea what to expect from him.

He basically screwed 3 sets of mine. I believe he is too cocky for this environment. I realized that during an event  you cannot  be cocky, you got to run more comfort oriented game with lot of story telling with grounding stories and qualification, which I was concentrating on and it was working really well.

So I first opened a two set, gorgeous girls, and my wing came in and started cold reading and I could tell the girls realized it on the go. They got away from us after 5 minutes when my wing finished his cold reading.

Then I opened an indian girl, got her number and facebook. But she is leaving to paris next week will be back only after 2 weeks. Let us see I can get her out. I run the commonality game because she is into photography and a creative person which Im projecting as I am.

Then I opened a 2 set indirect and they were not biting, so I moved on. Walked around a bit and opened a gorgeous girl Stef directly. She was really into me, I started qualifying with medium hoops and she was so happy to comply. My wing was working on the other girl and when I was about to get her number her friend said she wants to go to bathroom, which is girl code for, the guy I"m talking to is boring.

Then my wing opened a 4 set, I was handling 2 girls and one girl was really into me. I tried to move her after a big loop and she moved with me. Then she realized her friend is alone with my wing and when I was about to start talking to her at the new location her friend came tous and told us, she is gonna go home. Thats another code for the guy Im talking to is boring. But I got the girls number and facebook. She wants to do a photoshoot with us. Well lets see how this all will turn out.

In other news, the girl from the last photo shoot Nadja flaked on me citing a reason she is saving up for paying for her rent. I dont know its true or not, but she lives a little far from DC and it will take a bus and a train to get to DC for her. So may be she dont have anyone to give her a drop after the event or she is not into me. I will know if I call her again, lets see that.

And another girl I talked to from the whole foods while day gaming also flaked on me, but her text message was really detailed and she was sick the day before yesterday and she mentioned she is more sick yesterday. Dont know its true or not, but I'm gonna call her for the photoshoot this saturday,lets see she will come for that.

Positives : I opened almost all sets directly which is a good thing,I can weed out the girls who are not into me immediately.
I could make girl talk to me a lot about them. I dig kinda deep into who they are personally. For example the indian girl told me about her dating life, the spanish girl told me about her family, her life in high school, her goals and ambitions.
I did made some statement of intents.

Negatives
I should avoid taking wings to these events, alone will work better, no one to destroy some solid sets.
I should avoid the mentality of dependence on wings to open sets. 

Day game at Whole foods

Monday I went out to day game at whole foods with superman  and couple of his friends in the evening.
I was aiming to open 6 girls today but opened only 4 basically because there was too much gap in between each set. We chat a lot in between and wasted our time. We started at 6:30 and day gamed till 9:30 just to open 4 girls which is atrocious.

Anyways, I opened the first girl Kirsten and it went well. She is an intern in DC and I opened direct. She was really receptive, I went into the story immediately about my trip to India and complained about easing into the DC grove. talked about wine, qualified her, hugged her but forgot to do romantic connection with her. Seeded a date and got her number. I called her later and we talked for 20 minutes and she is supposed to meet me today, well lets see if she meets me or not. I said we are going to a hinge party for our magazine and she said yes.

Next I opened an indian girl and she didnt recieved well at all when I said she is adorable. I made a mistake of saying I'm an engineer without she asking. I think I lost my mojo when she didnt took my direct opener well.

Next I opened a girl indirectly and she was not cute, I thought she is from far and she has horrible beta body language. See now I know if a girl is beta just by talking to her. But she was receiving me well, so I continued my interaction and did my usual grounding story about India trip and shopping in whole foods etc. Qualified her with a medium loop which is what you do for fun and she does not have anything going on in her life other than hanging out with friends..no she wants to qualify and I know she is trying but basically she is living a boring life. Anyways I got her number but later I deleted it because I know I wont go out with a date with her even if she agrees.

Next I opened a girl with a head scarf turns out she is a muslim. I should stop opening muslim girls, they are so prude and I'm sure she is a virgin. But the interaction was the longest and we talked about many things about her. I talked about religion, I know I know its a taboo, but I mentioned it in a way to show my knowledge in thier religion turns out I know better than them. Some of the info I gave them, they are hearing for the first time. Anyways, I got her number and facebook and we talk later on facebook. But Im not gonna waste my time on her, its a huge mountain to climb. Ill do better things like hitting on more girls.

Superman has the audio of the first girl in his recorder, I need to get it from him and upload here.

Positives 

- I opens directly
- no problem in transitioning
- No issues in qualifying 
- I think I generally come across as a decent guy dressing wise.

Negatives

- Need to open more cute girls instead of muslims and below par ones
- Should make more statements of intent
- Use the words attractive and sexy in SOI
- Try for romantic connection
- Try for insta dates
- Get the number after seeding the date as an after thought. 
- Need to do some cold reads in girls

Date with an Indian Girl

I met her online and no problem getting the number, never talked to her on the phone, arranged the date via text (So it can happen) and met her at current. She was wearing her high heels as I told her and very happy to see me. Current was closed so I walked her to Vapiano and ordered a Sangria and Vodka Soda (next time I will go for vodka red bull).

Did all my stores like ducks, meeting an author and he gave me his book, anchoring about what I do, playing around with hit list movie plot where Cuba Gooding junior is a professional killer, light kino, ask about some of her logistics, her family.

It was definitely on, but I ignored her comment about being emotionally extreme. I should have negged her something like, in that case I dont know we will get along well. I noticed her body language it was positive, she asked me many questions (IOI), playing with her hair.

After we hit the hour mark, I bounced her to staples for my personal shopping. I hold her shoulder and asked her to put her arm around my waist. Then I would have told her not to gram my ass (next time)

When we were about to leave staples, I saw her checking on her phone and smiling, may be another guy, who knows. Then on the signal, I negged her with pull my finger routine, and she didnt like it at all.
So after 5 mintues she gave me a mock I'm leaving threat, but I called her back and I let it drop. Big mistake, I should have told her that, I wont react well to threaten, next time when she is leaving me hanging, you better prepare to go, I wont call you back.

Then I moved her to fragut park and within 10 minutes I went in for the kiss, she wont accept, I say its alright, I will try after 5 minutes. Then again I went in for kiss, she wont budge and I believe I got upset. Then she started reading my palm and she is very cooperative other than kissing.

Then again after 5 minutes I went in for the kiss, she wont budge again. And she asks me why did I decide to contact her. I say, 2 reasons
1. You look like a loser in your profile.
2. You are the most beautiful women I ve seen in okc and match.com combined.

She immediately get up and leave, I say metro station is right there and thats that.

To Improve
I need to watch for more of her body language
I need to concentrate more on what she is saying rather than what I'm gonna say
Qualify more
If a girl asks me, why I choose her, I have to say
Why are you bothered about my assertion, dont you know you are a great person and I assume the same and I have no doubt, thats the reason you decide to came out with me, because you think I'm not an average guy you meet everyday. If you need assertions and validation from me, then we wont be a good match. But since you ask, I will tell you for the first and last time. You are sexy, but there are many sexy girls out here and I find you interesting and 3 you are nice but I"m not sure you use your niceness to get something from others or you are genuinely a nice person.

I deleted her number from my cell, so thats that.

Number of dates this year

Online dating
1. Teacher - just first date
2. Wine maker - just first date and I didnt want 2nd
3. Law student - Just first date
4. Job seeker (which I fucked)
5. French girl - I didnt call for 2nd date
6. Indian Girl - bust
7. A date with a short girl - I wont fuck her
8. A date with a texan girl _ i didnt call her
9. Date with wisconsin girl - Still talking need to arrange 2nd date, arranged 2nd date(8 hours).
10. Date with a musician - I fucked it by biting her lips
11. Date with a lawyer - she was not interested, so i didnt call her
12. Date with a Wyoming girl - socially inept girl
13. Date with Rosie - sanfran girl - She refuse to bounce, so I'm not gonna call her
14. Date with Carissa Michigan girl - I bounced her to a hotel room on first date
15. Date with Liz, but not my type, she is little fat than I imagined.

2012
1. Date with  a short hair girl - I was overly cocky
2. Date with Caroline - John hopkins girl, I was again cocky, but I deliberately choose to be cocky since she was young (22). I didnt gauge her wave length. I need to take it down a bit if the girl is not that high energy.
3. Date with Dana, she is fat compared to the pics online.

Night game and day game
1. Indian girl - went out for 3 dates and I loose interest
2. Army return - I want to give her my seed

2013 -

Date with megan - I didnt escalate but did good qualification
Date with and Indian girl humara - Went for 2nd date -LMR.I need to push and pull sexually
Date with Roshni - Didnt call her after 2nd date, kinda lost interest

Total -

Date with a Army return

Is this an aberration or a norm?

I met her at a Indian meetup and hit it off well. She could take my cocky teasing and she had an excellent shape and as tall as me (5'8). I isolated her from the whole group of men, and build some comfort and planned a date in the pretense of going for togo dance. And she accepted.

I was scheduled to meet her on Wednesday and I send her the address on Tuesday but never heard back until wednesday around 5 so I called and left her a message to make sure the date is on.
No response!
I thought she flaked, so I texted some friends to go for day gaming and left for the gym. when I came back from the gym I had 2 voice mails and 3 missed calls, all from her. So date was on.

We met at ESL, but wednesday is not togo day, it was tuesday. But the vibe was good and we are cruising, I was touching her, eye fucking her and she is responding well. after about an hour I thought I'm ready to kiss her, So I say, "I'm gonna hit the restroom now and when I come back, I'm gonna kiss you". She said alright.

So I come back from restroom, and take her for another drink. She was totally alive then, so I kissed her after 10 more minutes. She reciprocated with zeal, and I kissed her again interrupting her when she was talking.

Then I moved her to Farragut west park and we are walking on 18th street holding each other telling stories and I could really feel its going well. When we reached 17th street, I pulled her to the shadow of a pillar near by and kiss her again.

Now we are at the park sitting on the single seat holding hands, kissing(or is it eating her face) intermittently and having a great conversation. So when its about 9, I say lets go get some ice cream near the yogurt center and we do that. She feeds me her flavor and I feed her mine. I can tell she is enjoying it and after we finish ice cream we go to Farragut metro. On the escalator down, I ask her, have you ever kissed anyone on the escalator, she says no and I do that exactly.

Then at the metro, we talk a bit and my train comes first and I leave her kissing her good bye.

In the meantime, I arrange for the second date on saturday going to occoquan a place near spring field VA, which is a water front with some old town restaurants and park. She oblige.

So I call her next day which is thursday and I couldnt get her on the phone. So I leave a voice message saying, just calling to make sure about saturday date.

Next day I login to my facebook, she has deleted me from her facebook and the funny thing is she added me to fb. I've a meetup group, she was a member of it, and I see a mail mentioning she has left my meet up group.

What the fuck just happened?

These are my thoughts
1. I kissed her way too much and didnt show restrain.
2. My body language is completely off and I may be projecting beta without me even realizing.
3. She has AIDS or herpes and she find out on Thursday

I didnt run any game, I was completely natural and talking about things I know. I was qualifying her and she was compliant. Only game question I asked was, "when did you realize that you are attracted to me", to make her verbalize her attraction.

I really cant put a finger about how to improve on myself from this situation. May be you will have a different perspective.

Do you find any way I can turn this around. I'm thinking of calling her after a week or is it too soon?
Do you think I should call her at all?
So when I call if I get a voice mail, should I act aloof or should I say something serious like "I thought I had a great time and I dont know what happened from her perspective" or something similar.
If I dont get her to call me once I left her message, should I try again. My fellow wing man say, 5 is the magic number, call every girl 5 times before giving up

Being said that, I have some 10 girls in the queue so please dont think I'm being needy here, instead I'm trying to solve my puzzle of successful on a date.

Share me your thoughts.

Day Game August 4/11

Today I went out to do some day game around dupont and fragut square.

Opened 4 girls and none of them hooked. Pretty bad, but hey I didnt had any effect whatsoever on me after these encounters.

Good
Opened girls and went out.

Improvements to be made
Approach more girls.
Talk a little bit more fast, I guess I was really slow today.
Block the girls completely ( I used to do this, but I somehow was not in front of the girls today)
Dont forget the cam

PS: One girl overheard I was saying to another girl and I hit on the girl the same girl. She said, I heard what you said to the other girl, but I did hold my frame. But still I couldnt hook the girl. well...

Failed Day Game Pick up

This saturday, I went out with a friend of mine to Pentagon City mall and talked to some females. I opened 3 girls, got one number. But I forgot to turn on the cam for the other two in the hurry, but this chinese girl I did turn on my web cam. So here it is, take a look at it and if you have any feedback, I will be very glad to hear it.


failedChinese by springhorse